I've always maintained that I would never vote for a female president. It's not that I don't support the advancement of women - because I do - it's just that I am wary of the impact power has on the personality of the "fairer" sex.
Coming from a female, this viewpoint may be surprising; however, speak to any woman who attended an all-girls school and the reasoning becomes all too clear.
On the playground, boys have a reputation for being somewhat rough. Girls, however, are nasty. Educational psychologists are quickly realising female bullies are mostly more insidious than their male counterparts.
To my mind, aging and entry to the business world are unlikely to remove what appears to be a personality trait.
Nevertheless, I am beginning to see an emergence of women who are able to hold power, while retaining respect.
Mean girls
In my career, I have worked for and interacted with several women of power. Rarely have these professional relationships been pleasant.
Of course, I have had many similar experiences with men. However, I've found that with men, you tend to know where you stand, while women will generally blindside you.
Although largely dominated by men, the IT sector has, since its inception, seen a smattering of females who have made it to the top and led the pack. Most, however, have left a bitter taste in the mouth of those who have had the misfortune of dealing with them.
All things nice
Despite my scepticism, there are women in substantial roles that are proving me wrong.
I am beginning to see an emergence of women who are able to hold power, while retaining respect.
Kimberly Guest, senior journalist, ITWeb
New Spescom CEO Jene Palmer is a good example. By all accounts, Palmer has not allowed her new power to corrupt her principles. Her employees are quick to praise her efficiency, fairness and forthright manner. Additionally, Palmer has remained remarkably pleasant.
HP SA CEO Thoko Mokgosi-Mwantembe has retained every bit of her femininity despite her role. Quick to smile, acknowledge and nurture those around her, Mokgosi-Mwantembe's reign at the vendor's local offices has not hampered its ability to grow.
There are many others, but my special mention goes out to deputy president Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka.
Having had the opportunity to hear her speak and grill her with questions on several occasions, I can't help but be swept up in her vision of what SA should be.
Perhaps this is because she takes the time to listen to the experts and understand the markets; maybe it's that she is so obviously action- and outcomes-driven.
Equally as likely is the fact that she is the first politician I have heard snort derisively. This moment of uninhibited scorn was prompted by a journalist's question on the danger of globalisation. (For those interested, Mlambo-Ngcuka sees no danger in globalisation, just opportunities waiting to be grabbed.)
Whatever the reason, our deputy president has opened my eyes to the possibility of a female presidency candidate that I would be willing to vote for.
Perhaps girls can grow up and lose that nastiness that seems to come so easily to them.
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